First, here is the song we sang with those amazing scenes…
It is so easy to forget this is a world at war. There is a massive collision of kingdoms underway. If we struggle keeping our passion for God or can’t seem to love people well, it is the effect of this sustained attrition against us. Because of this war, your soul takes a lot of damage.
The soul is a crucial part of your being. It has enormous capacity for love, passion, beauty, wonder, curiosity, etc. In war, actual damage can be done to your soul. Proverbs 12:18 “Reckless words pierce like a sword.” Psalm 31:17 “You have known the troubles of my soul.” Psalm 6:3 “My soul is in deep anguish.” It is a war of attrition – the enemy is wearing you down, wearing you down. Your inner reserves wither away.
The glorious news is that God restores the soul. Psalm 23. Without the restoration, the attrition of the war will wither you soul away so it becomes so insubstantial it cannot handle the picture of Heaven – that is the glorious, the substantial, the growing. Mark 8:37 asks, “Is anything worth more than your soul?” Is it? If your answer is “no”, then you’d better take the restoration of your soul more seriously.
Restoration and relief are not the same thing. Most of us go to relief. We’re beat up, spent, withering away and we go to relief. A few beers, ice cream, cruising the internet, a few hours of TV – anything to comfort us. Relief does not bring about restoration for the soul. It doesn’t heal it, restore it or make it stronger for the next time. We go to comfort and it just doesn’t work. It’s so momentary. Or… we just check out and go numb (a form of relief).
While this is going on, again and again and again, we’re getting worn down and vulnerable. The more you turn to relief, the more vulnerable you get. And the more dangerous stuff starts to look like relief – heroin, your secretary, pornography – and a guy just gets taken out. Wearing you down, wearing you down and you’re handling that by checking out, vegging, eating, drinking, masturbating. Worn down = vulnerable.
How God restores. Psalm 23 – “He makes me lie down in green pastures and rest beside peaceful streams”. It is a process. He “makes” me. Stillness and beauty are two of the many things God uses to restore your soul.
Think of the volume of information and noise that you process daily vs. what your Grandfather had to process. You’re going to have to be forced into stillness to achieve it. Your soul literally needs to do nothing on a regular basis. When you get some stillness and peace, soak it in. Guard against the oncoming “I need to do ___” list rushing into your mind. Stop. Focus on “do nothing”. Rest in stillness and the sunshine, the breeze, the blue sky. It is Sabbath.
Beauty – green pastures, still waters – there is nothing like beauty to restore the soul. Where do you drink in Beauty? The human soul has enormous thirst for beauty. The reason a lot of men get taken out by sex is because they are not regularly taking in beauty.
How often do you practice stillness?
Where do you drink in beauty?
Ask for it. Ask God to restore your soul. Put yourself in an available position and ask. Repeat it. Ask again. “Lord, restore my soul”. Consume scripture – not “Bible study” – no, just read the Psalms, read Ephesians, just let the Scripture wash over your soul.
Abstain from some things. What you withdraw your soul from is important. 1 Peter 2:11 “Friends … abstain from sinful desires, which wage war against your soul.” Whatever it is that you use for comfort, before you go to it, pause, ask “Jesus, comfort me. I need comfort”. Turn your attention towards Christ and invite Him to bring you comfort.
When you’re very aware that your soul has been assaulted or when you find yourself looking for relief … realize your soul is hurting and you’re turning to false gods for comfort. So much of the addictions of men is not about money, sex, alcohol, etc., it is about relief. Remember, relief does not restore. God restores.
The man to man, in your face question is — What are you going to do each day, each week to allow God to restore your soul? Because here’s the thing, the “it” is out there. “It” will wear you down. Not “might” wear you down, no, it “will” wear you down. It’s coming against your soul. You will wither under its constant oppression. So the attack is coming and you’ve got a choice to make – are you going to go to relief or radically pursue restoration? As they say in this next clip, “If you never get away to think about your life and sort things out, life will swallow you up. You need someplace you can go” …