here are the slides from today … manschool-wholeness-3-dealing-with-my-own-sin
The most fundamental problem in brokenness is our own sinful choices. We can’t control what others might do in our lives but we’re absolutely responsible for our own choices.
What is sin?
- 10 Commandments
- Galatians 5:19-21 – acts of the flesh: sexual immorality, impurity, idolatry, hatred, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, envy, drunkenness, etc.
- Jesus’ answer to the greatest commandment (Matt 22:34-40) = Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul and mind and the second is, love your neighbor as yourself. In other words, sin is not loving.
- Genesis 3 – reminds us of the basic truths of the nature of sin. God gives them the entire garden except one tree and it is there that Satan launched his attack. Satan’s strategy is to…
- A) distort the truth and create confusion saying things that sound like truth but aren’t exactly truth. He tries to cast doubt on the goodness of God, “Why would God not give you everything? See, He is holding out on you.”
- B) He draws upon our desire for independence and lead us to reject God’s authority and claim that authority as ours.
Why that one tree? The knowledge of good and evil. God wanted us to always depend on Him to show us what is good and what is not. To depend on Him to lead us to that which will bring us life and keep us away from that which will bring death. Satan comes along and says, “Why do you want to stay in a place where you have to depend on God? You can become your own god.”
And therein lies the root of all sin – “you can become your own god”.
Truth is under attack today. He’s taking it a step further. He’s not just twisting truth but leading us to a place of rejecting truth altogether in favor of relativism. “There is no objective truth”. Satan hates authority altogether but the truth is, we were made to live under authority.
Whether it is the 10 commandments, Jesus’ commandment to love God with all your soul, the Galatians 5 – lust, idolatry, greed, jealousy or the battle in the Garden of Eden … the essence of all sin is this ===> I want to live under my authority, not God’s.”
Scripture teaches us that when we begin to walk down that path of deception and rejection of God’s authority, the result ultimately will be consequences of destruction…
“Don’t be deceived: God will not be mocked. For whatever a man sows he will also reap, because the one who sows to his flesh will reap corruption from the flesh, but the one who sows to the Spirit will reap eternal life from the Spirit.” Galatians 6:7-8
You know this instinctively. You try to teach this to your kids. You know, as the Proverbs teach, that if you walk with the wise, you’ll become wise. If you walk with fools, you’ll suffer much harm. Hang out with turds, you’re going to turdville. You pound that into your kid’s minds and beg them to listen. But what about you and your choices?
The consequences of sin?
- It is immediate. Guilt, shame, physical, social, legal issues, financial consequences, relational pain. You can’t take it back or undo it. A hidden affair. A hidden pornography addiction. Once the sin is exposed, the consequences are immediate.
- Long-term. Romans 6-8. Sin is not so much a single act but rather the power of the trap of it … that we can become a slave to it (think of pornography). Romans 6:15-16 in the Message “You know that there are some acts of freedom that destroy freedom. Offer yourselves to sin, for instance, and it’s your last free act.”
One of the things that gives Satan a right to wreak havoc in our lives is when we sin. Sin is not just committing an act, it is opening a door. This is an enemy that will come in through an open door. His aim is to gain a stronghold to keep you under the power of sin. But remember, if you don’t open it, he can’t come in. If you do open it …
Sin will always take you further than ever meant to go.
Sin will keep you longer than you ever meant to stay.
Sin will cost you more than you ever meant to pay.
God’s Provisions for dealing with sin. This is the path to winning this war …
- Confession. Agree with God that a particular thing is sin. Stop rationalizing or justifying. I’m agreeing with God that this is wrong. Accept the truth of God’s word. Psalm 32:1-5. James 5:13-16 “Confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, so that you may be healed.”
- Repent. To confess is to merely agree with. To repent is to turn 180 degrees and go the other way. Confession without action is just words. Repentance is turning away from sin and turning towards God.
- Power. Power of the Holy Spirit to break the stronghold of sin. Romans 8:1-2 “The power of the life-giving Spirit has freed you from the power of sin that leads to death.”
God does not want you to stay in brokenness. He wants you to embrace His Truth, reject the rationalizations/justifications and chose to live under the authority of Jesus Christ. 1 Cor 6:18-20 – “You are not your own, you were bought at a price.” Satan is desperate to keep you from the truth that God is utterly good. He loves to give. His anger comes from his passionate love. If He didn’t care, He wouldn’t be angry. What God prohibits, it is because He wants to protect you. He knows what He commands will bring you life. Wholeness starts with turning to Father.
Please see the next post for the impact point…